Thinking Back and Looking Ahead
R. Alex Whitlock
It's funny how you can search high and low for that other person and you can prepare almost every aspect of your life to meet someone, but in the end you're just playing it by ear when you're struck back by the right person stumbling out of a tent at eight in the morning hundreds of miles from where either of you live.

I've probably spent more of my life thinking about the fairer sex than most guys have. I've thought about how to find them, how to relate to them, and what the right one for me might be like. I've dreamed up a constantly-evolving checklist of what the right person for me would be like. I have my doubts as to whether or not Camille satisfies every criteria of any of the internal lists that I've made.

But the funny thing is that with all of my cogitation, all my imagination, and all my creativity, if I'd set out to create the best person with all of the best attributes most suitable to me in the longest of terms, there is no way that I could have dreamed up anyone better than the person that I found, stumbling out of her tent on a chilly Oklahoma morning almost two years ago.

That's not to say that we've been perfect and no problems have poked their nefarious heads in our lives. But together we're fantastic at wading through the problems as they come up. Which is good because we have some difficult decisions ahead. Some sacrifices and compromises by both of us are inevitable. But what gives me the most confidence about us is how little doubt I have that she and I will be able to work through whatever problems arise.

Camille, please turn around. I have a question for you.
Posted to Love and Love Lost
 
 

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Linus wrote:
So do you have some news for us, or what?
3/28/2005
 
ATruett wrote:
yes?
3/28/2005
 
TP Milton wrote:
That sentence that begins with "But the funny thing" is EXACTLY how I feel about Ms. TP. In fact, it was that realization, that I could not have imagined a woman better suited to me than she, that finally made me wake up and marry the gal.
3/28/2005
 
MIKE wrote:
Well? What's the word?

Come on. Out with it. We want to know :)
3/28/2005
 
MIKE wrote:
Ooh, just noticed the above.

Congratulations you two!
3/28/2005
 
ADAM wrote:
Congrats!
3/28/2005
 
ATruett wrote:
Yes, ditto!
3/28/2005
 
Guest wrote:
Many congrats and best wishes!

-Sya
3/28/2005
 
TP Milton wrote:
Woo-hoo! Congrats. Marriage rules. At least for the first 9 months. Ask me again in 5 years. ;-)
3/28/2005
 
Linus wrote:
Congratulations! Just remember, I beat you to it, if only by a month or so. :-)

Have fun doing the ring thing, calling the parents, etc?
3/28/2005
 
ChrisElam wrote:
Whee! Marriage!
3/28/2005
 
Craig wrote:
That's great news, Alex! Congrats to both of you!
3/28/2005
 
EEL wrote:
Thanks so much for all the congrats and good wishes, y'all! :) I still don't know what to say (besides the all-important YES!), that and the fact that I seem to have had a permanent smile on my face these last few days. :) I couldn't be more delighted, ecstatic, joyful. . . pick your happy adjective of choice, it'll apply. :)
3/29/2005
 
SAM wrote:
Best wishes to both of you. May you grow together, and remain inseparable.
3/29/2005
 
Andromina wrote:
Oh, I'm about to cry!!!! I'm so very happy for you two! HUGE CONGRATULATIONS!

The ring is nothing, dear - the DRESS is what matters!!! :)
3/29/2005
 
EEL wrote:
Oh, gawd, I'm trying NOT to think about the dress -- shopping is not my thing. I think I'll find a pattern and a seamstress and take the easy way out. :) (If that's not motivation for getting in shape, I don't know what is!) And I really like my ring. :)

Thanks again for all the good wishes!
3/30/2005

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